Fuck buddy? What be a Fuck Buddy! Who be he? WHO?

bazzartWed 25/06/08 01:43

I saw a topic about a Fuck Buddy and it was quite educational, an eye opener, made me think...

Do fuck buddies just FUCK or can they have coffee too?

Can fuck buddies talk about the weather or is that just taking up valuable fucking time?

If a fuck buddy turned up late (for a fuck...) would his fuck buddy be upset and think he may have been fucking another fuck buddy?

Do fuck buddies kiss, snog, hug and canoodle, or is it straight on with the fuck, get fucked and fuck off?

FUCK me!

I have to admit I've never had a fuck buddy nor been anyone else's buddy that fucks and I don't know if I could get into a situation like that.

I can imagine that it could be a great idea , perfect for some, an ideal arrangement, commitment-free, purely physical, serving a purpose etc and that's great for anyone who chooses that.

I just really, really couldn't imagine myself doing that. I equate sex (and fucking) with intimacy, sensuality, warmth, and close-ness.

Is that old-fashioned, limiting, dumb?

What think you about this buddy-fucking thing?

What if you fell for a fuck buddy and you wanted your FB to turn into your BF?

And he didn't?

FUCK!

or not?

olorin1Wed 25/06/08 02:12

Well, what I have I have found it is, FB's can be anything and nothing.

Some will have a coffee and chat with you, as they are not used to it, or maybe they are, some will just have a water and go after the event. It's quite nice if they do stay for a chat, they sometimes become friends, which is also good.

It depends on the guy at the time, and what they would like.

Some just cum and go, excuse the pun, but it happens, some become boyfriends, some are looking for much more, but after the heat of the moment, and words are exchanged, it does not always happen, as I say, it depends on the guy, and how they feel, not always how you feel.

It is a mad and wonderful experiance and it can lead to more, but most of the time, it does not.

You can get your heart stolen and ripped apart, or just take it as it comes. I tend to find, just go with the flow and not look for to much in the whole thing. It can be wonderful and terrible, but just relax and enjoy what you can. Don't get to swept up in it, and see what comes of it.

bazzartWed 25/06/08 02:20

quoting > "
You can get your heart stolen and ripped apart,"

That's the part that would really concern me ... the chance that you could fall for a fuck buddy and not have the feeling returned.

I know there's that expression "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..."

BUT...

Sometimes, easily-hurt person that I am... I reckon "it's better not to have known, than to have known and got hurt!"

"Ignorance is bliss!" and all that stuff!

Still fascinates me though, the idea of a fuck buddy :-)

olorin1Wed 25/06/08 02:33

Hey fella, sometimes you have to go through these things to see what they are really like or worth and some times you have to live your life with no regrets, as you say, almost, it's better to have known love than not at all, almost in your words.

However, don't always feel that you are gonna get that from a FB, but you know that. I think you should live for the moment and give it a try. As I said to a friend, it's just two concenting adults, exchanging a transaction, and it just happens to be a bodily one, there is no shame, as long as both of you know what you are doing.