Dilemma: Is it better to regret....

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jasoninspireThu 13/03/08 12:57		Is it better to regret something you missed out on, an opportunity which you let slip by, or something which you took but didn't work out, and caused distress or upset. For example, is it better to keep someone as a friend despite the fact they might become your soulmate, or to ruin that friendship by trying to make it something more?
jasoninspireThu 13/03/08 13:02		Regret what you did? Or regret what you didnt?
finalfrontier1976Thu 13/03/08 13:03		Hmm, I would like to think I don't regret anything. I have come to realise that I made those decisions and at the time I made the decisions that were right for me. I may have done things a little differently but I don't regret what I've done.
gayrathThu 13/03/08 13:03		I think its better not to regret anything at all. Regret is not constructive or very helpful. You did what you did at the time, based on how you felt about the situation. As they say hindsight is a wonderful thing, but in the long run its kind of pointless.

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