Am I such an ugly F@!*$#R ?

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olorin1Sun 18/11/07 01:34		Guys, honest view, am I an ugly so and so? Just need an honest opinion to see how others view me these days. I have put on some extra pounds and kind of lost my nice shape, and feel that I am unattractive to other guys these days. I just need a temp check as to how others see me. Don't pull any punches, I really need an honest opinion from guys on here. It is so important to me, please........
deleted:coleukSun 18/11/07 01:35		Sorry, am I the only one having a de ja vu moment? Didn't you did exactly the same thread a couple of weeks back?
olorin1Sun 18/11/07 01:37		I did indeed, but still feel no better about myself, and still need a second opinion, still going through so life crisis about myself
deleted:coleukSun 18/11/07 01:39		Well my friend, that is life. You have the ups & you have the downs. Granted, some of us unlucky fuckers seem to have more downs than ups. Just keep your chin up mate, you thought about having some self esteem conselling?
olorin1Sun 18/11/07 01:51		Thanks mate. I just feel kind of low about myself at the moment. I am having conselling and some days I am up, some days I am down. It's the down ones that hit me hard sometimes, and I feel kind of worthless and blue, and question myself and my own existence. I am sorry to put such a crap posting on here, I will slap myself about a bit and tell myself I was stupid for putting this on here, sorry every one. x x x
octotwinSun 18/11/07 01:52		I've just looked at your pics and I don't see what the problem is. You're a handsome guy. You have nothing to worry about.
deleted:coleukSun 18/11/07 01:57		stuie, never apologise for expressing your emotions. Its best to share it rather than bottle it up. You are a good looking guy, but as I've always been taught... The past is history, the present is a gift and the future is a mystery. Stop judging yourself on what you used to be like, we all age & we all change. But for the all the wrinkles & love handles you get, you have one thing the youth will never have... wisdom.
noodleSun 18/11/07 01:59		Growing a little older and putting on weight doesn't suddenly make you unattractive. If that were the case I would have given up a long time ago! I said it before and I'm saying it now, you are very handsome, even just from looking at your face pic. Your insecurities are unfounded. Now get out there and break some hearts already. You'll find we're all right and not just saying this to cheer you up.

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