The dangers of oral sex

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cliveMon 28/07/08 06:43

 

About two years ago my best friend split up with his partner of nine years. They barebacked during that relationship, but since going their own separate ways he has only had what he believed to be safe sex. He's been a bit of a tart in saunas and cruising grounds, but has never taken any risks.

It came as a bit of a shock, therefore, that following a negative result in December he tested HIV positive last week. He's taken it all in his stride though, and is totally calm and rational about it, although he has to wait a few weeks before further test results.

I had a long chat with him yesterday, and he swears blind that he has not barebacked since his partnership ended, and virtually never lets a guy cum in his mouth. He does, though, suffer from gum problems and regularly has bleeding gums.

Thankfully HIV is not the death sentence it once was, but this is a lesson that you *can* get infected other than through barebacking.

jekyll101Mon 28/07/08 07:10

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Quickfind:Clive: > "He's been a bit of a tart in saunas and cruising grounds, but has never taken any risks."

Sadly, having sex with 'random' people always holds an element of risk. Sorry to hear about your friend, hope everything is ok for him.

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