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Topic started by Happy Andy In Basingstoke (andywho)

photoComplete re-write. Well thats 2010 done. A strange year for me, had a troubled time at work. learned from my mistakes. moved onwards and upwards.. Got a boyfriend (first one in ten years), sadly it didn't work out, so I ended it. Sorting out my diet and diabetes care. A romance would be nice...

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andywhoSun 25/07/10 00:07

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So here I am, nearly 51, Basically single for 10 years. Recently out of a 3 month relationship. Realised that not only was the last guy not the one for me, but more importantly, I've realised that I am not certain that I want a "traditional" style "live in" realtionship. I have many hobbies that occupy my spare time. But I still like sex and don't really get fulfillment from saunas. Although I do find them useful occasionally!

I think I need a regular fuck buddy (I am sure that better descriptions are available). Are there many others here who feel the same?

This is in no way a winge, just an honest account of how I feel at the moment. But I would value your (my dear fellow OUTers), opinions/ways that you singletons get around this thorny age old problem...

ollysugarSun 25/07/10 00:19

 

I have been single for 8 years, bar the odd, skirmish. I am not sure I could really imagine sharing my home with someone, though I would not want to rule it out.

It just seems that to have to be so considerate of another person ALL THE TIME would be a nightmare. Last time I tried it was well over 10 years ago and I didn't find it easy, though the relationship was far from perfect, so that could not have helped any.

It can't make finding ones goal any easier if one is not sure one even wants it.

So I guess I can understand. I certainly don't want to be alone, but have a sense that if I am not it will have to be by redefining what relationship means to me.

I shall watch this thread with interest.

andywhoSun 25/07/10 00:26

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We seem to have similar feelings@oilysugar...

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