Why am I always attracted to Bad Boys?????

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Topic started by Cyber Schizoid (cyberschizoid)

Only want to meet totally genuine people thanks for friendship.I'm nice but won't put up with sh*t from anyone so be warned. I shall put the kettle on so feel free to drop in for a cuppa.Harsh but fair I say. ;-)

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cyberschizoidTue 31/07/07 20:58		Or "bad men", whatever...? As a single guy who is actually quite a nice person and good fun with fantastic mates blah blah...I would like to one day meet a guy to settle down with once and for all. Now, I always think how cool it would be to meet a really nice chilled guy with a good job, good sense of humour, caring nature and a reasonably stable lifestyle...BUT !! I ALWAYS end up attracting and attracted to the Archetypal Bad Boy / Eastenders style gangster / "towny", "wide boy" "wheeler dealer" type!! Why??? I'm not saying I'm mega involved with someone at this time but I have recently become attracted to someone who ticks all the wrong boxes (but somehow all MY right boxes). Is there something wrong with me?
deleted:planetkitchenTue 31/07/07 21:04		quoting > "Is there something wrong with me?" Yes . You are making the common mistake of going after what you want rather than waht you need, it's called human nature innit??
cyberschizoidTue 31/07/07 21:08		Aha!! But why do I want something that's usually essentially bad for me in the long run? Maybe that's my bigger question...maybe. There is just something SOOO attractive about a Bad Boy! LOL...still, I guess sometimes these things do work out!
bradpeetTue 31/07/07 21:08		Well - whatever it is, it affects me too. They are always more alluring somehow. And nice guys seldom stand out for some reason.
sheafferTue 31/07/07 21:10		sighs * oh my God*

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