Third date advice needed
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Topic started by What Now? (jay78)
Hi there... 30 year old guy living in Guildford, Surrey. Into music, walking/hiking, arts, food, pubs, politics, cars, jogging and stuff. More into long walks, theatre, trying something new in the kitchen, catching up with friends kind of guy than wild clubber. Looking to make new friends, find myself a MAN- ho ho ;-) and have a tendancy to talk endless rubbish.
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jay78Sun 30/09/07 07:42 |
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At 11 today, I'm going on my third date with a guy I recently met. We're going for a walk in the country. He's a lovely guy- intelligent, charming, handsome and he tells me he's very keen on me. I know he's single, but not wanting to be heavy I haven't asked much else. He's hinted he's after a relationship but I didn't follow it up- hell we were only on a second date! So my question is, when is it appropriate to talk about such things? And is it reasonable for me to suggest whilst we are dating we don't date anyone else? What's the accepted rules nowadays?! I'm a bit out of practice! |
starlight24Sun 30/09/07 07:52 |
It depends on what type of relationship you have with him. |
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jay78Sun 30/09/07 08:00 |
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Junior, I'm after monogamous, committed relationship- so a boyfriend would be great, but I don't rush into things. Also, I like to know early on what a guy is after to avoid spending time with them, falling for them and then it going pear shaped when you find out they are married, or got a bf, or just after fun, or want an open relationship etc... |
frankytSun 30/09/07 08:04 |
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I think I'd chuck the "accepted" rulebook out of the window, if I was you. |
jay78Sun 30/09/07 08:08 |
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That's helpful Franky- we are already heavily into mutual admiration ;-) He's quite slick (and I dare say well practiced) in meaningful looks and compliments... |
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