Not at all romantic...? How does that work then!?

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bazzartSun 02/11/08 14:15

I know what Romantic means - or at least my definition and understanding of it...

Buying flowers and chocolates for your partner, having an Our Song which always reminds each other of a special event or first date etc. Whispering "Sweet Nothings" into your partners ear, remembering special occasions like Birthdays, Anniversaries, Date you first met, surprising your partner with little gifts and trips out somewhere special... hiding an (I love you)I card in his wallett or workbag, texting him loving messages, warming the bed before he gets in it... kissing each other before setiing off for work, phoning before leavig the office etc...all that sort of stuff I reckon is what goes towards making up Romance and being romatic.

But... what is "Not at all Romantic" ... which is one of the options on OUT for the list of "My Profile" > "Love, Sex and Relationships"

How does that work?

NOT AT ALL ROMANTIC?

Does it mean you never say "I love you!"

Never buy flowers, chocs and trinkets of love?

Never text your partner love messages?

Forget Anniversaries, have no Our Song moments?

Seriously, how does that work? Is the UN-romantic relationship based on sex, co-habitation for practicality, sharing the expenses of life?

I'm NOT saying that "Not at all romantic" is wrong - far from it, to each their own and everyone's interpretation is right for them, but I can't imagine NOT being romantic or a partner not showing romantic feelings and expressions towards me!

So come one you UNromantic buggers... how does it work and how do you be UNromantic !?

What does your partner think of this, or is he the same way as far as romance goes?

What IS romance and romantic in YOUR understanding of the words?

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