Bear hunters and chubby chasers!

berksbearFri 07/03/08 10:18

I am a 44 year old bear/chub. I never know how to describe myself - to some bears/hunters I am not hairy enough (though have a fair covering of chest and back hair) - to some chubs/chasers I am not chubby enough!!

Bottom line is I am me hairy-ish, chubby-ish, and I like younger slimmer and slighlty less hairy guys. I'm attracted to opposites not to the same. So every time i get chased by a bear or a chub I often get a whole pile of abuse and get called 'sizist' 'ageist' and the like when i say i am NOT attracted to my own type. I always say so politely, thanking them for their interest, am never rude or insulting and yet i get whole pile of crap sent in my direction because i don;'t find them attractive!

There are lots of nice young slim guys out there who I find attractive, but who aren't into older bigger hairier guys but i don't heap abuse on them because they don't find me attractive or their type.

Thankfully there are some - who i count as very vear friends _ I might add that I do have many friends who are chubs and bears too!

I am a member of biggercity and daddyhunt and met soem great guys there, occasionally go to the king's Head (and end up getting chased by grizzly bears and have never met a chaser there!).

So come on you chubs and bears, or you chasers and hunters - what is a guy to do? Any more sites I should be on? Any pubs/places/venues you might suggest i visit to encounter bear and chub-loving younger slimmer guys!

Sorry its such a thesis - may well submit it for a PhD in sexual psychology!

take care

berksbear x

berksbearFri 07/03/08 10:19

Ps If any hunters/chasers are remotelly interested in getting to know this kind, caring, cultured bear - drop me a message!

x

jacksparrowFri 07/03/08 10:24

Eurowoof?

berksbearFri 07/03/08 10:26

thanks jack - have peeped on there but never dived in. Some chaser friends say its not chaser friendly - are there many chasers/hunters on there?

jacksparrowFri 07/03/08 10:29

quoting > "Some chaser friends say its not chaser friendly - are there many chasers/hunters on there?"

I don't know. I find the notion of chasers/hunters very bizarre.

I think if I thought somebody was only interested in me because of my heft I would find it quite off-putting.

berksbearFri 07/03/08 10:32

sure its about more than physical attraction but often that's how things start...?

gayrathFri 07/03/08 10:33

I detest the word chaser.

I like a nice hunky, fat, hairy man But if they used the word chaser around me I would think...actually you worry about me chasing you, and while you do that I will go after that man over there who just wants it.

I think I migt stop using the word bear and just call them twink chasers instead and see how long it is before they get a bit tired of that.

philc777Fri 07/03/08 10:41

I find Eurowoof very friendly, very straightforward..

In fact at the moment, I would say it has, on average, more sensible, more grown up, less petty and less nasty people than Out..

I have been really pissed off by some f*ck*** Outers these last 2 weeks!

Maybe it just seems that way as it has no forum function!

jacksparrowFri 07/03/08 10:44

quoting > "I have been really pissed off by some f*ck*** Outers these last 2 weeks!"

Is it me?

berksbearFri 07/03/08 10:52

thanks mr cocoholic will give ita go on your recommendation!

take care

yorkie x