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Topic started by Thomas P (pommie)

photoTom = Bags'o'humour, socialising, dancing like a fool, quiet times,candle lit dinners/Romance & Flowers. Tactile/hugs/feelie- strokie/rumpy-pumpy. Friends describe me as cuddly, a nice way of saying your a bit of a fat cow! Music/film/books/the atre/concerts/stimul ating & mindless conversations/ Scene or not/Cappuchino/Cafes /People watching/Walking/Tra vel/ Visiting Mates. Photography/Glass/Ce ramics/Wood,etc. Sweet tooth....All low fat, low calorie, of course... (NOT!)

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pommieMon 25/02/08 20:00

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Are the words 'Romance' & 'Gay' unlikely bedfellows?
I've found the words 'Sex' & 'Gay' are more likely. Are there actually any Romantic Gay men, or is it just a case of saying whatever they want to hear, to get into their knickers? Maybe, it's not just Gay Men, maybe it's just Men, full stop....One tracked mind & all that.....Every 7 seconds isn't it?
Now don't get me wrong, I'm no prude & love sex, but, is sex , really the basis to building a relationship? Start with sex & hope the rest will follow. Your thoughts please.

Tom. :o)

carriefaveMon 25/02/08 20:05

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i am always thinking the same..

i have a mate who loves shagging but when i said why dont he take his dates to restaurants bars etc he said they get to know each other in the bed sheets...

so i was a little miffed and i did think god it's me that is asking too much....

chriskhMon 25/02/08 20:09

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Getting to know someone outside the bedroom is for me the best order of things. Then at a certain point, the inevitable happens. But at least I know a bit about him by the time we get groovy.

pommieMon 25/02/08 20:22

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Blimey, that was no messing....Two replies already!

I think the terminology for your mates activities 'Simon K', is 'Try before you buy'. Tho, by the sounds of it, 'trying' is the only thing he is doing. How can you get to know some-one, apart from their sexual tastes, by purely having sex?

Maybe , 'Duster Keaton' (Not his real name...Is he a silent cleaner?) is right, you need to find out what a person is like mentally first. Some-one might be a red hot lover, but, if they bore you rigid, then you are on a bus going nowhere. Having said that, if you really like some-one mentally & they turn out to be a totally crap shag...God! What do you do then? Maybe that old line, 'We can be Friends can't we?'

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