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urqhart03Mon 27/09/10 19:46

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Following on from the topic about going cottaging the other day, started me thinking about the whole process.

I'm not judging anyone, indeed I wish I had the courage to try some of the stuff talked about on Out, but I was wondering why in both the gay and straight world, there is this acceptance these days that there is no problem with just meeting up in public areas for sex.

There is a lay-by near where I live which is well known for this but is also a place where lorry drivers park up when their tacos run out. I've noticed the police going in to the lay-by a few times recently and I have heard its because the lorry drivers are getting fed up with being appraoched by guys and seeing things they aren't that keen to see.

So, who is right? the people that meet up for sex with strangers in piblic places or the public that want to use these places without having to put up with other people's sex?

laresMon 27/09/10 19:56

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quoting > " I was wondering why in both the gay and straight world, there is this acceptance these days that there is no problem with just meeting up in public areas for sex. "

From a moral point of view, it doesn't bother me as long as everyone is volunteering (and they're tidy) but from a personal point of view, I can't imagine anything less sexy or comfy than using toilets/laybys/fields.

deleted:rockonMon 27/09/10 20:06

 

Every mornin/lunch and tea time I have to pass one of these cottages(i now know it is listed as a hang out) It is embarrassing to see overweight etc men of all ages hanging about and going in.I have to pass by and know that as it is next to a play area the mums are afraid to let their little ones use the toilets. Indeed I would not like to use them myself.

Maybe it is the last resort for many of them.the place emanates an odour even from a distance. The police say that they have had no complaints !

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